Nicole Murphy never gives up
Athletics teaches us about ourselves and those around us. Deep emotions can be felt while performing sports – integrity and pride or sometimes sorrow and disappointment. Sports prepare us both physically and mentally for our future pursuits.
Players learn to respect referees and coaches. In life we may not always agree with the decisions made by our bosses or teachers, but we must learn to respect their decisions. During a soccer game in early fall, the referees made several calls that frustrated both spectators and players. Fed up, I walked off the field. As I passed the center official, sarcastically I said – nice game. She blew her whistle and gave me a red card. Reflecting back, it was not the referee but myself I was most frustrated with. This used to be my greatest regret on the soccer field. Looking back, I wouldn’t change that moment. Through sports, I’ve learned to respect authority.
“Never give up, never give in” is a quote often used to inspire players. It is hard to understand that you could fail even after spending countless hours mentally and physically preparing yourself for your goal. You may practice for hours and may not see results in the next game, but you do improve. Athletics proves that the underdog can win if they work hard enough.
Athletes sacrifice themselves in small situations for larger outcomes. A teammate must give up individual glory and allow others to take the spotlight for the good of the team. Qualities that are experienced in athletics are irreplaceable and can be carried over into every aspect of life. Soccer, basketball and track have all shaped me. Learning to stand together as a team is a lesson to learn in life and sports shows that like no other.
Nicole Murphy is a sophomore at Nipmuc Regional High School in Upton, Massachusetts. She is on the varsity soccer, basketball and track teams.
photo courtesy of Nicole Murphy
